The Wise Wife
Hello great wife, please take of this truth. It’s not popular. It’s tough, but it will help you.
Your husband is not your “mate”. He is your master. You are a help, meet for him, not a mate to him. You came in to fit in. He did not bring you in for him to fit in.
This is important to understand. Because you know that in daily life, you don’t take instructions, directive, or submit to your mate. You only take advice from your mate, but you take instructions from your supervisor or superior. True or true? Great!
Your husband is not your “Babe” 😘 He is your “Lord” and leader. Babes are for nurturing and growth 💹 You’re his “Babe”. He has a duty to nurture you and grow you to fit in. But you must be amenable to nurturing by being flexible and bendable.
A Lord is honored, respected, revered, and obeyed. Nobody competes with his or her Lord. It’s never done!
A Lord that is honored, respected, and revered has his ego pumped up. He will do everything to retain his ego.
A wise wife works hard to ensure the husband’s ego is top-notch, never punctured. That way, he goes beyond the oceans and seas to protect and provide.
This is the secret. Take it. Apply it. If it does not produce good results, sue!
© Joseph Chinenyeze Ibekwe
The Family Coach
Graced Family Chapel, Abuja, Nigeria.
Tel:+234-9063069744